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Post by shyamwestwind on Jun 8, 2007 10:34:22 GMT
I'm really feeling down in the dumps !! My good friend and partner, Elvis who has been with me for the last two and a half years is going away to Australia. I'm going to miss him terribly, as we really made a super duo. There were never any ego problems between us and our programmes went like clockwork .... we did one song after another and the combination of our repertoire of songs was truly enviable. We actually complimented each other and the audiences responded to us well.
He is a genius as a musician and in setting the sound and is a perfectionist. We always sounded crisp and clean and we were proud of how we sounded
More than all this he stood by me like a ROCK, when I was down and out with MS and suffered to sing I will never forget how he chipped in to sing and cover my slurring. He encouraged me and kept me singing and I owe my recovery to his encouragement and patience. Recently, I had angioplasty done and again, Elvis stood beside me and kept me going.
I am lame from polio and he has always been there to support me .
I do wish him and his dear family all the very best and I know he'll shine wherever he goes, like the star he is, but I cant help feel terrible he's going away and I'll be losing a fantastic musician, friend, and partner.
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Post by midimart on Jun 8, 2007 11:23:19 GMT
My Sympathy's go with you Shyam..... But look on the bright side, see how many NEW friends you have made here at The MidiMart Forum. Take a look at some of the funnier postings to give yourself a little cheering up.... I know it's not the same as a performing partner, but many muso's here would love to duo with you.... Me included...  |
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Post by weegeo on Jun 8, 2007 12:14:57 GMT
Hey shyam as 1 door closes another 1 opens now is the time you should be looking to replace your partner before he leaves Good luck in your search
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Post by bri on Jun 8, 2007 13:01:29 GMT
Hi Shyam
I'd love to be your partner, but unfortunately India is a little too far. Don't get downhearted - I'm sure you'll find someone else eventually. No doubt it will be hard, but hopefully not impossible to (and I use this word hesitantly, as it sounds so crass, and also as I know how you feel...I've been there) REPLACE him.
My best wishes go with you, and good luck also to your friend Elvis.
Take care
Bri
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Post by shyamwestwind on Jun 8, 2007 20:46:14 GMT
Thank you guys for the comforting words. I did the usual weekly gigs at the restaurants all by myself and I felt empty and really depressed. Ys I've got a couple of guys in mind, to partner me, but I doubt if we can sound the same. Its odd when I think about it - we use Midi tracks most of the time, but I missed the add ons that Elvis contributed to the songs and though I sang with the same files and added my humble layering, I didnt feel the "fullness" of the songs. I'm truly feeling down in the dumps and I wish I could disappear atleast for a few weeks and return to make a new entry with a replacement.
Thanks Glenn and Bri - I would have loved to have you guys with me.
I guess I have to go on and try and make the best of what I can get.
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Post by thingyy on Jun 8, 2007 23:44:40 GMT
Have a break,go and check out other local acts.Dont be to humble to ask to join or steal one of the singers.
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Post by Tubbs on Jun 9, 2007 15:54:37 GMT
I,m sure everything will work out fine for you shyam!!
Onwards and upwards as they say!!
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Post by rogerb on Jun 10, 2007 7:49:36 GMT
Hey Shyam,
Sorry to hear you're feeling a bit down. That's understandable given the circumstances. It seems to me from reading your various posts over the last year or so that you have overcome quite a few setbacks in life. Without intending to sound condescending, I'm sure you can overcome this one. Take your time to adjust to presenting a "different" act. As performers and musicians I believe we need to be constantly changing and looking for new challenges. This is just a new goal for you. Good luck.
Roger
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Post by shyamwestwind on Jun 10, 2007 18:01:13 GMT
Thank you all - really nice having friends like you to advise me. Elvis left a few hours ago and yes it was an emotional farewell. I'll need to give myself a break before I choose a partner.
By the way, Elvis gave me all his wonderful Midis, all perfect stuff, edited and reworked by him with lyrics . I t really was a fantastic gesture considering the hard work he put in. I'll treasure them .
I wish him and his family all the best in Australia.
I'm sure Melbourne will lap him up - he's an accomplished musician and a singer with a great repertoire. The musos in Melbourne will do well to team up with him (I'll give them his contact no. if they ask me ) My loss will be their gain.
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Post by thingyy on Jun 10, 2007 23:17:55 GMT
So whats his real name ?
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Post by shyamwestwind on Jun 11, 2007 5:07:15 GMT
Hi thingyy
His real name is Elvis Figredo.
Are you from Melbourne ?
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Post by thingyy on Jun 11, 2007 6:07:59 GMT
No sorry I am in Brisbane area.
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Post by Emerald Midi on Jun 11, 2007 8:39:40 GMT
I had music partner for a number of years but unfortunately we had to go our separate ways - he moved back to Ireland and I went on living in London, so I can identify in some ways with Shyam's situation.
But I eventually teamed up with someone else and the craic was mighty once more. Sadly, though, after another few years this too came to an end.
Life does have its ups and downs and I guess we should try to appreciate what we have while it's still there. Nothing lasts forever, unfortunately.
These days I do a solo act.
Shyam, others have given you some wonderful and thoughtful advice and I hope you have found some comfort in what they have said. I too wish you well and pray you team up with someone who will allow you to experience the joys of gigging once again.
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Post by charlie on Jun 12, 2007 13:22:50 GMT
Hey Shyam,
Like Bri said, I would love to your partner also. You know, after it's all said and done, what's most important and what you'll always remeber is the closeness and honesty you share with someone of kindred spirit. Now, add to that ...talent, a cooperative nature, and pride in one's work....no wonder it's so hard to let go and move on. But, look at it like this. Your partner would want you to continue doing what you do so well. Remember, it's the music that brings life into everyday living. As good as a friend he is, he would want you to find a partner that will help you to continue gigging. He, of all people, knows what music means to your soul and peace of mind. Good luck. Keep your head to the sky. I know that fire burns within you and your music. I've read all your threads.
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Post by shyamwestwind on Jun 12, 2007 20:44:37 GMT
Thank you Charlie and Pat - I know I have to carry on and I hope I can. I've been searching for a reasonable substitute but its not happening! I had a guitarist with a PSR 2100 to play the midis Most of the guys cant play the keyboard professionally and as I too cant play professionallyt the chords and the odd melody) I need a strong keyboard player who should sing too. TOUGH ASK !!!
Pat, what is your advice about going solo ? Any special things I should do ? Any gimmicks to "illuminate" the act ?
I would prefer playing as a Duo but I'd rather go solo than risk doing a lack lustre act.
Thanks for all the good advice and comforting words, guys.
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